When you are working under your big-boss, it is mandatory that you always become toady. Heads up, stand straight and shout "Yes Sir". Whatever be the work, whenever it is and indifferent to what your engagements are on that particular time. Well, thats natural. Its the world where everybody wants to rise and if you go against you boss, you better find a place of solitude.
But being a undergrad-student, whom are you accounting to that you cant say no to any work. Although the work assigned by your proffessor falls under different category. Friends, juniors, Seniors and close pals come to you with their different problems. And i cant understand why? Why cant they just give it a shot and try to solve it themselves. Why are they under this misconception that their problem solving capacity is less than others? And moreover, why are they trying to involve others in their genuine trouble? Answer to this can be very simple. You are their bestest friend thats why people come to you and take advice. On the otherhand, taking advice and working on it is not they dwell on. What they are interested in is: you solve the problem for them and they sit beside you having a cup of coffee. I mean what the hell? You came to somebody with such a serious matter and you transfer all the load of yours to your so called best friend and you relax at ease. Thats not the relation of friendship which thrives on sharing and distributing griefs as well as happiness. Its now high time that i begin thinking that where am i getting it all confused, where am i taking the wrong path which leads to the destination where i find myself totally screwed up. After close analysis and many researches along with a very close and best friend of mine "M"(thats her nick name in short), we came to this conclusion that one must learn how to say "no" to things which are non of his concern. You should'nt and you must'nt take over the throne of God. Getting involved in each and every affair will do no justice to you, neither to your health nor to the event. If you learn to do it wisely without hurting anyone, it will be another quality you just created and which ll help you a lot in your future endeavors.
Oh Jesusss!!! Stop me.....what am i doing?
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