Are you in Love???

Now let me start writing some blogs regarding romance.

There is a very distinct line between "love at first sight" and "lust at first sight" which is otherwise called infatuation. Somewhere i read a quote that "infatuation is a love of emotion and real love is the love of devotion." And seriously speaking i have no idea what it means. Anyway, the thing is many think that they are in love the very first meeting they have with the opposite sex. Even i was doing the same a few months back. But these people will find that they are falling in love every now and then. Be it a mall and a hot lady passes by you and you go like "O'man!! I have fallen for that lady' but thats it. End of the story. Or you might go to a dinner or coffee with someone just because you work together and you prepare yourself all throughout the day for the dialogues that you gonna frame, the topics you gonna talk about, the dish you want to order and at the end of the day, you might say to your friend "I think I am in love". Come on, you have just missed a word in the statement which would make all your emotions look differently. You should have said "I think I am in love.......again". Give me a break, its not at all giving a single hint of love.

You might want to consider your first meeting to be a love at the first sight if one of the following three things happen:

1. Accept the fact that you have arranged the very first meeting with her only because you like her physical attributes. There is nothing to be ashamed of in it. Thats totally natural and thats what is visible to the bare eyes. Afterall there is no other way to look inside somebody. But you wanna consider that you are in love if you are taking things slowly in the first meeting, your eyes are exploring her eyes for the entire time, you dont go by your prepared dialogues and everything comes to your mouth automatically, you try to put yourself up as you are and if you are true to yourself.
2. What most of the people do in a date is blabber about themselves so as to let the lady know how good you are from all the man that are after her. This is not love. Its like u just want to get in, have an affair in ur database and get out. But if you are diverting all the talks towards her and show enthusiasm to know everything about her that common people would not be knowing at all, O'boy! you are really into it.
3. Last thing that will happen to you is that you start having mushy feeling inside of you. I guess thats what people call "dil mein hulchul hi ho rahi hai". You cant stop thinking about her all the time.

There you go, you are certainly in love if any of the above starts happening in your life. Just watch out!!!